So your over 40 years old and ready to settle down. Or you’ve already tried settling down once or twice but it just hasn’t worked out? Whatever your situation is you are looking for some direction into finding the right man for you.
The biggest problem with men and women over the age of 40 is that they usually have “baggage”. Baggage could be kids, ex wife, bad credit, or skeletons in the closet (drug problems, alcoholism). It’s very unlikely to find a partner over the age of 40 without at least one of these issues. So it’s important to understand what your up against.
Now the good news is there are plenty of fish in the sea. So you have plenty of men to choose from. The key is to make sure you are looking in the right places. The last place you want to meet your future husband is in a bar. We have all been there done that. I won’t go into details as to why you just don’t want to go down this road. As a matter of fact, it could be why your in the situation your in now.
So what are your options at 40 years old? How do you even begin to look for your soul mate?
The answer: “ONLINE DATING”
Yes, the internet is a powerful resource. There hundreds of professional online dating sites you can sign up with. I wouldn’t suggest signing up for all of them. Do your research and find the most reputable ones. Search for reviews, testimonials, and success stories. Narrow it down to three dating sites and become familiar with their platforms.
What is the benefit of online dating? Well the obvious benefit is the ability to filter your options down to the type of man you are attracted to. Your able pick and choose without leaving the comfort of home. You get to learn about their likes and interest. What they do for a living. In some cases, the amount of money they make. (that shouldn’t be a stipulation for finding love). Although it’s nice to know:)
I’ve actually taken the liberty and found three of the most reputable online dating sites for you. I would try match.com, zoosk.com and eharmony. I don’t know what the exact fees are for any of the sites.
I’m not sure if this is the answer you were looking for? But for the quickest way to get back in the dating game and find a husband quickly, I would definitely consider using a dating service.
I would love to hear more about your situation and thoughts. So go ahead and leave me a comment below.