Have you and your boyfriend been dating for sometime? Is he giving you signs he doesn’t want to get married? If you actually see the signs unlike most women, then you are that much farther ahead of the game. Many women fail to see the signs that their relationship is going anywhere. So they spend years with a man wondering when he is going to pop the question. If you are one of the very few women that actually realize what your relationship really is and where it is headed then you will save yourself a ton of heartache in the near future.
So what are some signs that your man doesn’t want to get married. I think the most obvious is that he totally ignores the whole “get married” conversation. He is totally evasive when the subject is brought up. If your man is doing this it’s not because he is hard of hearing. It’s because he probably doesn’t want to get married. I find it so amazing how so many women do not get this obvious hint?
If your man tells you he wants to make more money or be more financially secure, this is a good sign that he is putting off the whole getting married subject. Is he making efforts to make more money? Is he looking for a better paying job? Is he looking to take on additional work to earn more money? If he isn’t then you know that more than likely he is just giving you an excuse for not taking the next step in your relationship.
Tell me, does he often get an attitude when you mention anything about getting married? If he does, this is sort of a defense mechanism to avoid talking about getting married. He is avoiding having to come out and tell you exactly how he feels. So he plays it off thinking with sarcasm and attitude to throw you off the subject.
These are all signs that he doesn’t want to get married. Your next question is does he ever want to get married? You’ll have to dig deep and think about where your relationship started and where it’s at now. If you haven’t seen significant progress in your relationship and it seems like it has been stagnant for sometime, you may want to re-evaluate your relationship.